Hello Readers,
My write-up today is to all the Potential couples-to-be out there on planet Earth. I sit here in my chair at the office, and there is so much I want to say, write and many words running around in my head, coupled with a worship song in my head, and I have stared at the computer screen for more than ten minutes before the words begin to flow.
I am led to write today by the Holy Spirit, just because I feel there is someone that would read this today or some day and it would minister to you.
This post mind you, is for those who feel they have hit rock bottom in their relationships and do not know what else to do. This post is for those who believe in their hearts of hearts that they have searched, and performed all the wonders and utilized all the knowledge that they have on their relationships but still don't know what to do.
Congratulations! You are not the only one who has been where you are, and BIGGER congratulations!!! because when you hit the bottom the only and next place is the way to the top and there have been lots of people who are survivors and successes. In fact, 60% of successful marriages in the world today hit rock bottom, before their eyes opened and they are where they are today.
To The Would-Be Couples:
Marriage to this bloke or damsel is probably the next-best-thing in your life, you have never been happier, that you will be spending the rest of your life with this guy or lady or maybe you are just excited to be in a relationship with this man or woman and you do not mind sharing the rest of your life with him or her and you have already began to think of what you would wear? Who would have your make up done?
ALL THESE ARE GREAT.....but here comes reality are you sure that if you do a list of all his characteristics and qualities, looking sensibly you can actually live at least 15 years of marriage with him?
I hope when you wrote out this list bearing in mind that you are not perfect, you did not intentionally omit some things, that are of great importance.
Yes the God-factor is there and your pastors who have never been wrong before, or your parents have prayed and checked and they believe he or she is the best partner for you is not enough for the journey you are about to undertake!
Don't look away now or you might sign yourself into a life of praying more than you would have or into total misery which is a playground for the devil.
What can he not stop? What does she do that you cannot live with? How does the relationship work? Does the other person always feel entitled or d do you both work to make sure both parties are satisfied, or its just about pleasing one person.
Are you hurt? does this person hurt you? emotionally or physically? I am here to tell you what to do next....after you have tried communicating how you feel, confronting the issues, talking through them and yet you see no changes even after prayer and fasting....that is because its NEVER going to change.
Save yourselves heartache because God's gifts are good and perfect and there is no addeth sorrow to it, so if your happiness is shortlived or you are always sad, then GOD IS NOT HERE!
Save our society! Save the unborn children more heartache and confusion.
Allow God give you someone else, whilst you solely trust in Him Psalm65:1, because His thoughts towards you are of GOOD and to bring you to a perfect end Jeremiah 29:11, quietly explain all your reasons, regardless of where that relationship is now as long as you have not signed that dotted line.
Please do away from the relationship... its going to hurt like fire, but its not going to hurt as much as when you are married and there is no way out, the pain then is multiplied geometrically; EXCEPT for God's mercy.
If they are going to change, let them take some time out to work it out and then you can support them through it but don't get married to that person, until there is real change.
Finally, ask yourself this today "Why am I marrying him? Why am I marrying her? Write it out and look at it everyday, presenting it to God, afterwards give Him praises trusting that He will lead you aright.
Don't get confused PART 2 continues tomorrow.
I remain
Ela Rose.
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